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) After four years, each black face is as different to me as every white one but when I first came to Uganda, I couldn’t remember who was who. ” That didn’t help much, as I soon learned Ugandan ladies like to DRAMATICALLY change their hairstyle every couple of weeks!
I would try and remember each lady by their hairstyle. Back to dem Rastas and, when I asked a male Ugandan friend why do white women go for Rastas?
To be Rastafarian you don’t have to be black; in fact Rastafarianism has to come from the heart. Rastas are famous for smoking marijuana as a symbol of religious practice.” Real Rastas – of which there are very few in Uganda it seems – do not touch alcohol.
So for the sake of this article, I have thrown the cosmetic and the real into one big cultural melting pot. I echo the sentiments of this guy, who said: “Come on people, think about it before you all start judging dem Rastas. You must be joking – you don’t know what’s living in that hair! Anja echoed my thoughts: “Rastas are generally a lot more liberal than most Ugandans.
Jane added “They (and many African men) can talk your pants off. their suppliers happen to be Rastafarians, I guess one thing leads to another …” This Muzungu’s theory is that black, white or brown – ‘girls like a bad boy’ – and in this case Rastas often fit the bill (superficially at least).
Even if you are unattractive by your culture’s standards, they will make you feel like the most beautiful person in the world.” One Ugandan male advised “if you are gonna hit on a mzungu girl in Uganda, never wear a freaking tie or talk about your big meetings.” He asks “why do mzungu ladies stay clear of corporate/learned Africans? That’s why the Muzungu girls are going with them rather than the corporate Ugandans.
I have ever hit on a mzungu chick before, but I was either too smart an African or I was not talking dumb enough. If a white girl’s dating a corporate Ugandan, hell she might as well just date a corporate guy from back home. ) Also on Facebook, Richard adds that the Muzungu girls “think that all Rastas have big Mandingo dicks and last for hours.
It is my unschooled and unkempt Rasta friend who scored.” Ow. Whether true or not, Rastas live up to the bad boy reputation with drugs and alcohol binges that, rather incongruously, make them attractive to Beckies traipsing aimlessly around Africa looking for adventure they can’t find back home.” Just say it like it is Richard! Enjoy the moment, but don’t kid yourself you’ve found the only faithful “Rasta.” So tell me your experience – anonymously if you like!
“They’ll learn how to dance, they’ll learn how to make love.
The Muzungu lady often falls in love with the Rasta. She’ll then spend the next couple of years going backwards and forwards between Uganda and her home country trying to keep the relationship alive. There’s always a new supply coming through and any bad behaviour can be forgotten (by him at least) when she leaves the country.” As one person neatly summed up, “The thing about a Muzungu-Rasta relationship is that it is so disposable.” Jane, who has several years experience managing volunteers in Uganda, gave her opinion on why Muzungu girls like Rastas: “Rastas know where the parties are.
They tend to hang out in a ‘posse’ so hooking up with a Rasta = instant friends.
In Uganda, Rastas or ‘Rasta lookalikes’ symbolise non-conformism. – we come from societies where self-expression through your personal image is quite normal, encouraged even. Rasta refers (incorrectly) to “any person having dreadlocks.” “True Rastafarians believe that Ethiopia’s Emperor Haile Selassie a.k.a. Rastafarianism is a common religion amongst black Jamaicans and deeply rooted in African culture.
Rastas eat a diet of vegetables, fruit and fish and keep their bodies, mind and soul healthy by staying active in global issues.