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His (Allaah’s) Angels, His Holy Books, His Messengers, the Day of Resurrection and Al‑Qadar (Divine Preordainments)], then fruitless is his work; and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers” [al-Maa'idah 5:5] What is meant by chaste is refraining from zina (unlawful sexual relationships).
Ibn Katheer said: This is the view of the majority, which the most correct opinion, so as to avoid the combination of her being a non-Muslim with her being unchaste, which would mean that she is totally corrupt and thus her husband will get, as the Arabic proverb says, “Bad goods and cheated on the weight.” The apparent meaning of the aayah is that what is meant is those who are chaste and refrain from zina.
This may mean that she will hang up crosses and go to the church, and the children will not be safe in this environment. She is not going to wash properly after finishing her period, or tell him not to have intercourse with her when she is menstruating; she is going to make him do something that is wrong according to sharee’ah and cause him physical harm. He is going to be put in an embarrassing situation because of her careless attitude concerning dress and her mixing with men and speaking to them. The states and governments of these women of the Book will be on their side and will give them custody of the children if differences arise and divorce takes place.
This will cause these children to be lost and to fall into kufr.
Answered by Ustadha Sulma Badrudduja Question: Can a Muslim man marry a sikh or hindu girl?
…If not, what are the reasons and consequences of it….that couple really wants to marry each other then what should they do?
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman may be married for four reasons: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment.
Choose the one who is religious, may your hands be rubbed with dust [i.e., may you prosper].” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4802; Muslim, 1466).
Al-Nawawi said: The correct meaning of this hadeeth is that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was describing what people usually do, for they seek these four characteristics, the last of which in their view is religious commitment, but you, the one who is seeking guidance, should look for a wife who is religious. This hadeeth encourages keeping company with people who are religiously committed in all things, because the one who keeps company with them will benefit from their good attitude and morals, their blessing and their good ways, and he will be safe from mischief at their hands.
Such cases are too well known to need mentioning here and too many to count.
One of the poets said: “Marriage to a Christian is an abhorrent action which leads to the kufr of the children for sure.
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Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 3/55 The condition of the woman’s wali being a Muslim is indicated by the verse (interpretation of the meaning): “And never will Allaah grant to the disbelievers a way (to triumph) over the believers” [al-Nisa’ 1] However, we do not advise you to marry a non-Muslim woman, nor do we advise you to marry just any Muslim woman.