Why is online dating so taboo
"Someone who's smaller may be wonderful, but in my case he will never make me feel like he's in control." (To those of you who just thought Women have internalized the message that it's better for us to be smaller.
This is essential to know—it's not just about shortness, but also skinniness.
Having never been in love (still very much deep in the "I'm chasing that asshole with the dumb jacket" phase), I had no idea how complicated relationships get. Drinks with friends is open season on the Tinder randos and one-night stands in your life. And in some ways, that's legit; like, you probably wouldn't want him telling his boys the exact centimeter measurement of your vagina.
Single people sign up for a half-dozen dating sites and apps in order to widen their pool, yet most won't break the height taboo. Men should date women who are taller than they are, and women should date shorter men.For chrissakes, I'm talking about of us getting laid here!Only four percent of heterosexual couples feature a shorter man. Now, in order for you, a shorter man*, to circumvent this bullshit and convince wonderful taller women to date you, you have to understand why women feel this way.It's like they don't get that things can be complicated without being bad and that working on issues actively is something totally natural," says Chelsea, 25."Besides, every time someone's bitching about relationships, you should take it with a grain of salt because they're never revealing the parts that make look bad."Now my friends — many of whom are engaged — are judging the shit out of me the same way I used to judge them.